We are pleased to announce that Supporting Elvis Children: Stepping Out of a Deceased Sibling’s Shadow by Ard Nieuwenbroek, Judith Kimenai, and Tanya Defferary is now available in English, published by ACCO (2026). The book was first published in Dutch in 2023.

The loss of a child within a family and its impact on the family system is often carried in silence – unseen, unresolved, and rarely spoken about. This book offers a revealing insight into the lives of people who grew up in this unique position: Elvis Children. The term is inspired by the life story of Elvis Presley, whose twin brother died at birth, and who is said to have felt compelled to live for two.

Grounded in a contextual therapy approach, the book explores the risk factors faced by both young and adult Elvis Children. First-hand accounts illuminate these dynamics, and the book provides clear, practical guidance for professionals working with Elvis Children in healthcare and education.

The authors bring a rich variety of backgrounds to this work. Ard Nieuwenbroek is a trainer, therapist, and supervisor with a background in social pedagogy and contextual therapy. Judith Kimenai is a writer and contextual practitioner with extensive experience in secondary education. Tanya Defferary is a counselling psychologist based in South Africa, with a DPhil in Psychology and a particular interest in intergenerational patterns and relational healing.

Supporting Elvis Children is available through ACCO » or Amazon »

Join us for an Online meeting

Join us for an online meeting on 29 January 2024 from 6.00pm to 7.30pm CET with Kristina Schellinski and Ard Nieuwenbroek on the topic ‘Guilt and guilt feelings in replacement children’.

In the meeting on 29 January, Kristina and Ard will start with a short introductory talk after which participants can participate freely and ask their questions.

The cost for participation is €20.00 or $20.00.
After submitting the sign-up form you will receive an invoice on your email address.
The costs for a transfer from a country other than the Netherlands are for your own account

After registration and payment, you will receive a link for the meeting on 29 January.

In preparation, you will receive a 15-minute video of a conversation between Kristina and Ard on this theme, in the confirmation mail.

The meeting will be recorded and available to paying subscribers who live in other timezones.

Sign-up Form

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